Normally, they don’t cause any symptoms. But when they do, they can be downright brutal. They can mess with your lifestyle. Your mood. Your self-esteem. And even your sex life. That is ovarian cysts for you.
Here are the 6 different ways that ovarian cysts, and its symptoms may be to blame for your orgasm drought.
1. The pain during sex ovarian cyst symptom
Ovarian cysts can make sex unbearable. They can cause pain. Not the good 50-shades-of-Grey kind. They cause the hey-could-you-stop kind of arousal-extinguishing pain. And unlike conditions like vaginal dryness that cause superficial painful sex, ovarian cysts usually cause deep pelvic pain.
It may be that the additional weight of your partner puts additional pressure on the cyst and surrounding tissues, or that it causes the ovarian cyst to burst or that your partner’s penis knocks on the cyst during penetration. Whichever the cause, it’s not pretty. And not the best companion when it comes to building a healthy sex life.
2. Weight gain – the esteem-shifting symptom of ovarian cysts
Unexplained weight gain is a symptom of ovarian cysts. One that has knack of lowering a woman’s self-esteem especially in the bedroom.
The weight gain may be as a result of hormonal changes that the presence of the cysts brings about. In extreme cases, it may be due to the weight of the cyst. For most women, it doesn’t really matter. Piling on weight, especially when it is immune to all the weight loss diets you know, is no way to boost your confidence in the bedroom. It messes with your confidence and in so doing, also messes with your ability to orgasm.
3. Distended abdomen – the figure-altering symptom
While still on the subject of self-esteem, ovarian cysts have more than one way to attack. If weight gain doesn’t work, it can simply create a bulge in your abdomen. This can make you light-shy and can make the can-we-please-switch-off-the-lights excuse more appealing. All this is not good for you. And it’s definitely not good for your partner.
4. Breast tenderness –the symptom that makes arousal weird
If you find nipple stimulation a faster way to turbo-charge your arousal, ovarian cysts can ruin that for you. This is because they can cause breast tenderness – a pregnancy-like symptom of ovarian cysts.
It will feel weird when your partner touches your nipples. And if playful biting is your thing, it won’t feel as arousing as before. And just like that, ovarian cysts can destroy your pleasure buttons.
5. Ovarian cyst treatment scars and body image
There are times when ovarian cysts become so large that removal through surgery is inescapable. There are also times when serious complications like ovarian cancer give you no choice in the matter.
While all this may be for a good cause, your health, it can end up leaving your body with permanent scars. These may make you shy or uncomfortable in intimate situations. And it may take some adjusting for you to get used to. But till you do, all the self consciousness that comes with the scars can make it hard for you to reach your potential – so far as sexual satisfaction goes.
6. Ovarian cyst symptoms that simply take you off the sex mood train
Ever tried getting into your sexual element when having back pains? Or enjoying a kiss when experiencing bouts of nausea and vomiting spells? Or when experiencing sharp pelvic pains? Or when you are sure that you can experience bleeding at any time? You can imagine how hard it can be. Or how much of a nightmare trying to pleasure, or receive pleasure, can be for a woman with cysts in her ovaries.